
Private • Selective • Long Term
Black Dominatrix in London
Black London Mistress • A Different Kind of Dynamic
I stepped away from the normal London BDSM Mistress world some time ago. I don’t miss doing traditional sessions, but there are four things from that world that I still genuinely enjoy and want to keep in my life.
Life coaching for subs. Foot worship. Useful service subs. And sploshing.
Life Coaching for submissives
I enjoy helping submissives get some structure into their lives, become more disciplined and actually do the things they keep saying they are going to do.
My background in psychology, counselling, social work and life coaching means this side of dominance comes very naturally to me. I like seeing actual progress rather than somebody coming to see me for an hour and then disappearing again.
You can read more about my life coaching for submissives .
Foot Worship
Foot worship will always be a big love of mine and something I genuinely enjoy.
This can be focused on my feet, or sometimes my partner’s too. It is one of the parts of this world I have kept in my life because it brings me genuine enjoyment.
If this is what you are interested in, you can read more about my private Foot Worship in London .
Service subs & service slaves
I like having useful and mindful submissives in my life.
I am not really interested in a service sub who wants to appear once, play out a fantasy and disappear. I prefer longer-term connections with people who genuinely enjoy being useful to me and becoming part of my life over time.
Sometimes that is very simple. Helping me with everyday things, running an errand or just making something easier for me.
I especially appreciate service submissives who have useful skills. You might be good at editing, driving, organising, project management or something completely different that could genuinely be helpful to me.
Financial service is part of this too. I expect my service subs and service slaves to understand that my time and attention have value and to be comfortable contributing financially on a regular basis.
If you want to be in my life as a service submissive, tell me what you can actually bring to it.
Read more about becoming a service sub in London .
Sploshing
Sploshing is another one that brings me lots of joy and fun.
I love the mess, the playfulness and the whole wet and messy side of it. WAM, vegan food play, cream pies and getting properly messy are much more my idea of fun.
I am based in London and offer private sploshing experiences here, with UK travel also available for the right booking.
You can read more about my private sploshing experiences in London and across the UK .
I am not returning to conventional Mistress sessions. These are simply the parts of this world that I still enjoy. I choose carefully and I prefer people who are interested in something longer term.
Private. Discreet. Selective.