Diary of a Semi-Retired Black Dominatrix: Ghosting & Time Wasters

Diary of a Semi-Retired Black Dominatrix Well, I thought I’d share a couple of things that have happened recently, because sometimes I do wonder about the people who end up in my inbox! Being a semi-retired Black Dominatrix in London means I’m a little more selective about how I spend my time these days. I… Continue reading Diary of a Semi-Retired Black Dominatrix: Ghosting & Time Wasters

What Is a Sploshing Fetish?

I’ve met people with all sorts of different interests over the years, but sploshing is one that I find particularly amusing. There’s something quite funny about somebody happily sitting there while you cover them in custard, cream or baked beans, knowing that it’s exactly what they’ve asked you to do! People sometimes ask what a… Continue reading What Is a Sploshing Fetish?

What is Sploshing?

Messy food play during a Sploshing London session.

If you’ve come across the word sploshing and wondered what on earth it means, you’re probably not alone. It’s not exactly something people discuss over dinner, although I imagine that could make for an interesting conversation! Sploshing is the enjoyment of getting covered in messy substances, usually things like cream, custard, yogurt, food or other… Continue reading What is Sploshing?