London Ballbusting: What Is It?

If you are looking for London ballbusting or you are simply curious about what ballbusting actually involves, you are definitely not the only one. It is a kink I have come across with complete beginners, experienced masochists and people who have fantasised about it for years before finally deciding to try it.

It is also something I genuinely enjoy.

For me, part of the appeal is the reactions, the control and the novelty of it. I enjoy seeing how much someone can take and watching them try to endure what I am doing. One of my favourite moments is when someone needs a little time to recover, gets themselves together… and then willingly offers themselves back to me for more.

What Is Ballbusting?

Ballbusting is a kink centred around controlled impact, pressure or pain to the testicles. You may also see it written as ball busting or shortened to BB.

There isn’t one particular type of person who enjoys it. Some people are very experienced masochists who know they can take quite a lot. Others are simply curious about the sensation or have had the fantasy for a long time and want to discover what it actually feels like.

It can also be psychological. There is the anticipation of knowing what is about to happen, giving someone else control and then deciding whether you are ready to offer yourself up for another round.

Why Do I Enjoy Ballbusting?

Ballbusting is actually something that has interested me for longer than I have been involved in BDSM.

I remember kicking someone in the balls when I was younger because he was being mean to me. Obviously, consensual adult ballbusting is a completely different situation, but perhaps the fascination started earlier than I realised!

As an adult, what I enjoy is being able to play with the intensity and watch someone’s genuine reactions. There is something amusing and fascinating about seeing someone willingly put themselves in that position.

I like the anticipation, the control and seeing how much someone can take. I also enjoy the novelty of ballbusting. It isn’t something you experience in everyday life, which is part of what makes exploring it consensually so interesting.

What Happens During a London Ballbusting Session With Me?

I don’t have one fixed routine that I use with everybody. I would rather talk about your experience, interests and limits first and then respond to you during the session.

I tend to work in waves.

There might be a period of ballbusting followed by time to recover before we start again. I enjoy watching how someone responds, letting them compose themselves and then seeing whether they are ready to offer themselves back to me.

Depending on what we have agreed, I may use:

• Kicks
• My bare feet
• Boots
• My knees
• Trampling
• Boxing gloves

Ballbusting can also be incorporated into a wider BDSM session. It can work alongside foot worship, trampling, restraint, humiliation, tickle torture and other forms of impact or pain play.

Or the session can simply be about ballbusting. It depends on what interests us both.

Ballbusting for Beginners

You do not need to be experienced to explore ballbusting with me.

If it is your first time, I will start very lightly. My kicks can be strong, so I am not going to assume that somebody who has never experienced ballbusting knows what their body can tolerate.

I would much rather start light, see your reaction and gradually discover what works for you.

Being new can actually make the experience quite interesting because neither of us knows exactly how you are going to react yet.

What If You Can Take a Lot?

That can be fun too.

I enjoy people who genuinely like pain and people who want to discover how much they can tolerate. If you already have experience with ballbusting, tell me what you have done before and what sort of intensity you enjoy.

I still won’t automatically start at maximum intensity just because somebody tells me they can take a lot. I prefer being able to judge your reactions for myself and build the session from there.

There is something particularly enjoyable about somebody taking a hit, recovering, looking at me and then positioning themselves for another one.

Why Do People Enjoy Ballbusting?

There isn’t one answer.

For some people it is masochism and the physical sensation itself. For others it is submission and allowing another person to control a particularly vulnerable part of their body.

Some enjoy the anticipation more than the actual impact. Others enjoy testing their endurance, being challenged or discovering that they can tolerate more than they expected.

And some people simply find the whole thing exciting because it is unusual and slightly ridiculous in a way that can also make BDSM fun.

You don’t have to take yourself incredibly seriously to enjoy kink.

Ballbusting and Foot Fetishes

There is quite a natural crossover between ballbusting and foot fetishes, which is something I see regularly in BDSM.

Someone who already enjoys being underneath a woman’s feet may also enjoy the vulnerability of those same feet being used for ballbusting or trampling.

For someone who loves feet, that can add another psychological element to the experience. The feet they want to kiss, massage and worship can also be the thing making them squirm.

If feet are the main attraction for you, you can read more about my foot worship sessions in London.

What Is Tamakeri?

You may also come across the word tamakeri when searching for ballbusting.

Tamakeri is a Japanese term associated with kicking or striking the testicles and is commonly encountered in ballbusting fetish content. This is why the word sometimes appears alongside searches for ballbusting even though most people looking for sessions in the UK simply use terms such as ballbusting or ball busting.

Communication and Ballbusting Safety

Ballbusting involves a sensitive and vulnerable part of the body, so I don’t treat communication as optional.

Before a session, I want to know about your experience, what you are interested in and anything relevant that could make this type of play unsuitable for you.

During the session I pay attention to your reactions and we can use an agreed safeword or physical signal where appropriate.

I will also stop if something doesn’t feel right to me. Wanting to prove how tough you are is not a reason for me to ignore what I am seeing.

The aim is to explore pain, endurance, vulnerability and control without trying to cause lasting injury.

Do You Have to Be a Masochist?

No.

You might already know that you enjoy pain, or you might simply have a fantasy about being kicked in the balls and want to discover whether the reality appeals to you.

You also don’t need to arrive knowing exactly what intensity you want. That is one reason I prefer building things up and responding to the individual rather than following an identical routine with everyone.