What can we actually do?

That really depends on you.

Some people might want help getting dressed up and putting a look together. You might want to learn a little about makeup, find clothes that actually suit you or experiment with a completely different look.

You might already do all of that perfectly well by yourself and just want somebody to actually go somewhere with.

Tell me what you have in mind. We don’t need to follow a standard list of things that you think you’re supposed to do because you call yourself a sissy.

Let’s dress you up

If dressing up is what you enjoy, we can have fun with that.

Maybe you’ve got loads of clothes already. Maybe you’ve secretly bought a few things but have absolutely no idea what goes with what. Or maybe you’re starting with nothing and want some help working out what you actually like.

You don’t have to look a particular way for me. I’m much more interested in finding something that you enjoy wearing and feel good in.

We can play around with clothes, shoes, accessories and makeup and see what works for you.

Sissification in London with a Sissy Mistress

If you’ve been searching for a sissy Mistress in London, you don’t need to arrive knowing exactly what you want or how far you want to take things.

Sissification can be as simple as getting dressed up together, finding a look you like, going shopping or building up the confidence to actually go out dressed.

There can still be a BDSM sissy training element if you enjoy me taking the lead, setting you little challenges and giving you direction, but I don’t need to make the whole experience strict or serious.

I prefer it to feel fun and natural. We can work out what you would actually enjoy doing and take it from there.

Shopping together

Shopping can be part of your sissy training too.

If you’ve been buying everything online because the thought of walking into a shop and looking through women’s clothes makes you nervous, I’ll come with you.

We can look at clothes, shoes, makeup or whatever else you’re interested in. I can help you choose things and give you my opinion when you try different looks.

You don’t need to spend a fortune either. We can just have a look around and make a day of it.

Want to actually go out dressed?

This is probably the bit that can feel scary if you’ve only ever dressed at home.

Getting dressed in your bedroom is one thing. Walking out of the front door is another.

If there is somewhere you’ve wanted to go but you don’t feel confident doing it alone, you can have me there with you.

We could go for something to eat, have a drink, wander around London, visit somewhere you want to see or do something else you’ve had in your head for ages.

We can go dancing

I like dancing, so if you want to get dressed up and actually have a night out, I’m up for that too.

You might have imagined yourself going out dressed loads of times but never actually done it because you don’t know who you could go with.

Get dressed, put your shoes on and let’s go. Sometimes actually doing it is better than spending another year thinking about doing it.

Maybe you just need a buddy

Not everybody needs someone standing over them giving them instructions.

You might just want someone who knows this side of you and is happy to come along while you explore it.

Maybe there’s a particular shop you want to visit. Maybe you want to go for afternoon tea dressed up. Maybe you want to go dancing. Maybe there is something completely different that you’ve wanted to try.

Tell me. As long as it is something I’m comfortable doing too, we can talk about it.

Never done any of this before?

That’s completely fine.

You don’t need to turn up already knowing how to do makeup, walk in heels or put together the perfect outfit.

You also don’t need to have gone out dressed before. You might have only ever thought about it.

Just tell me where you’re at. We can start there instead of pretending you’re more experienced or confident than you actually are.

Getting more confident

A lot of this can really just come down to confidence.

You might be completely comfortable with this side of yourself when you’re alone but suddenly become nervous when another person is involved or when you think about going outside.

I’m not going to make a big deal out of you being nervous. I’d rather help you relax and enjoy yourself.

We can go at a pace that works for you while still giving you a little push if that’s what you’ve asked me for.

Does sissy training have to be strict?

No.

I am a Dominatrix, but that doesn’t mean I need to spend the entire time acting strict or barking orders at you.

Some people searching for a London sissy Mistress want a strong dominant presence. Others mainly want somebody confident beside them while they explore.

I like chilled experiences where we can talk, laugh and actually enjoy what we’re doing.

If you like being given direction and little challenges, I can include that. If you mainly want company and encouragement, that’s fine too.

Want more structure and accountability?

Sometimes what somebody is looking for goes beyond dressing up.

Maybe there are things in your everyday life that you keep putting off. You might want more confidence, better habits, some structure or someone who is going to ask whether you actually did the thing you said you were going to do.

If that’s more what you’re looking for, you can read about my Dominatrix Life Coaching in London .

Or are you looking for service submission?

You might realise that what you’re actually interested in is having more of an ongoing submissive role with me.

If being given tasks, helping me with things and actually being useful appeals to you, that is a different side of what I do.

You can read more about becoming a Service Submissive in London .

Tell me what you actually want to do

This is probably the most important bit.

Don’t send me a massive list of things you think sissy training is supposed to involve.

Tell me what you actually want.

Do you want me to dress you up? Do you want us to go shopping? Have you always wanted to go out dressed? Do you want to go dancing? Is there somewhere you’d really like to go but would feel much better having me there with you?

I’d much rather you just be honest. Then I can tell you whether it sounds like something I’d enjoy doing with you.

Sissy Training London FAQs

Do I need to have dressed up before?

No. You can be completely new to it. Just tell me what you’ve tried so far, even if the answer is nothing.

Can you come shopping with me?

Yes. We can go shopping together in London and look for clothes, shoes, makeup or other things you would like to try.

Can we go out dressed together?

Yes. If there is somewhere you would like to go, tell me what you have in mind. We could go for a drink, get something to eat, go dancing or plan another day out together.

Can you help me choose what to wear?

Yes. We can look at what you already have or go shopping together and find a style that you actually enjoy.

Do I have to be very submissive?

No. Some people enjoy the Mistress and submissive side of the experience and some just want a confident buddy to explore with. Tell me what feels right for you.

Sissy Training London enquiries

If this sounds like your kind of thing, send me an email.

Tell me your age, where you’re based, what you’ve already explored and what you’d actually like us to do together.

You don’t need to send me your life story. Just give me enough information to understand what you’re looking for.