BDSM Holiday

BDSM Holidays and Private Stays With Mistress Nicole

Ever fancied spending more than a couple of hours with your Mistress? Perhaps a full day, a BDSM weekend or even a holiday somewhere interesting?

I’m Mistress Nicole, a Black Dominatrix in London, and I offer longer BDSM experiences for submissives who enjoy service, foot worship and spending time in a Mistress’s world.

Before you start imagining a week of non-stop BDSM, let me explain something. I’m not interested in performing for someone all day. I like relaxing, getting on with my own things and having people around me who understand that I don’t need to entertain them constantly.

There are two options. You can arrange a private stay with me in London, or, once we’ve got to know each other, we can discuss a BDSM holiday with my girlfriend Jessica and me.

Both are relaxed experiences, but they work a little differently.

Looking for a BDSM Hotel or SM Hotel in London?

If you’ve been searching for a BDSM hotel, SM hotel or private BDSM apartment in London, you might be interested in staying with me instead.

But let’s get one thing straight. I’m not running a luxury BDSM hotel.

If you’re staying at my place, you’ll get a blanket, a pillow and perhaps a yoga mat if you’re lucky.

That’s your accommodation sorted!

You’re not coming for fancy bedding or room service. You’re coming because you enjoy the idea of being useful, following my rules and spending time in my world.

I’m quite happy getting on with my day while you find ways to make yourself useful.

That might mean cleaning, helping with chores, organising things or simply being quiet while I work.

If you’ve got your own work to do, that’s fine too. Bring your laptop. I don’t expect you to sit staring at the wall waiting for me to give you something to do.

You’ll need to respect my house rules, including asking permission before coming and going as part of our agreed dynamic. Of course, you’re always free to leave for safety, personal needs or to end the arrangement.

If you’d prefer to book a London hotel instead, we can discuss that too. Accommodation costs would be additional.

Foot Worship, Service, Bondage and Sploshing

At my place, I particularly enjoy foot worship and practical service.

If you’re someone who genuinely enjoys spending a long time worshipping my feet, you may find this arrangement rather appealing.

There’s also plenty of opportunity to make yourself useful. I appreciate people who are proactive and forward thinking, rather than needing to be told every little thing.

Depending on what we’ve agreed, we can also include a bondage or sploshing session lasting around one or two hours during the day.

I’m not promising hours and hours of activities. There will be plenty of time when I’m working, relaxing, spending time with Jessica or simply doing my own thing.

You’ll need to be comfortable entertaining yourself, doing your own work or finding something useful to do.

If you’re expecting constant attention, this probably isn’t the right experience for you.

If you’re particularly interested in my other services, you can also read about service submission in London or my sploshing experiences.

You can also explore my foot worship in London page if that’s your main interest.

What About a BDSM Holiday Abroad?

Now, a holiday is a little different.

I enjoy travelling, eating good food, exploring interesting places and having time to relax. If you’re imagining Jessica and me spending an entire week performing BDSM activities for you, you’ve got the wrong idea!

We want to enjoy our holiday too.

There may be foot worship, service and other agreed activities, generally up to an hour or two on a typical day, but there will also be plenty of downtime.

Sometimes you might join us for sightseeing or meals. Sometimes we’ll want time to ourselves, and you’ll be free to do your own thing.

You might also help us with practical things, organising plans or making our trip a little easier.

We’re interested in submissives who enjoy that sort of arrangement, not people who need to be entertained every minute.

Jessica Will Be Joining Us

If we’re going on holiday abroad, my girlfriend Jessica will be coming too.

That means you need to be comfortable with both of us, and we need to be comfortable with you.

I’m not getting on a plane with a complete stranger simply because they’ve offered to pay for a holiday.

Before we consider travelling together, you’ll need to have met me in London, either through a private stay at my place or an agreed London hotel booking.

That gives us a chance to see whether we actually enjoy each other’s company.

Jessica would only meet someone once we’ve established some trust. If things go well, we can talk about longer arrangements together.

Where Can We Go?

I’m open to interesting destinations around the world, provided they’re places where we can travel safely and comfortably.

Some countries aren’t suitable because of their laws or attitudes towards BDSM and sexuality. Dubai, for example, isn’t somewhere I’d consider for this kind of trip.

I’d rather go somewhere we can relax, enjoy ourselves and not spend the entire holiday worrying about getting into trouble.

If you have somewhere in mind, tell me about it. I’m happy to consider suggestions, but Jessica and I will decide whether it’s somewhere we’d actually want to visit.

You’ll Be Treating Us to Lunch or Dinner

One of the things we’ll expect on holiday is for you to treat Jessica and me to lunch or dinner at least once each day.

That doesn’t mean you have to sit at the table with us every time.

If we’re having some time alone, you can arrange and pay for our meal in advance. We’re quite capable of enjoying dinner together without needing an audience!

We’ll agree on a sensible meal budget before the trip, so everyone knows what’s expected.

Flights, accommodation, transport, activities and other expenses are also additional to the holiday tribute unless we’ve agreed otherwise.

I like generosity, but I also like things to be properly organised.

How Long Can You Stay?

For a first booking, I prefer to start with a maximum of 24 hours.

Spending an entire day together is quite different from meeting for a normal session, and I want to make sure we’re comfortable around each other.

If we’re getting along and both want to continue, we can discuss extending the arrangement.

Once we’ve established trust, longer stays become a possibility. That could be 48 hours, 72 hours or even a week.

International holidays are only available once we’ve met in London and know that we get along.

BDSM Holiday, BDSM Weekend and Private Stay Prices

Whether you’re looking for a BDSM weekend, a private BDSM apartment experience or a longer BDSM getaway in the UK, we can discuss an arrangement that suits your interests.

Just remember that my place isn’t a luxury SM hotel, and I’m not offering non-stop entertainment.

These experiences are deliberately relaxed. You’re paying to spend time in my world, follow agreed rules and enjoy an extended submissive experience.

  • Initial consultation: £50
  • 24-hour private stay with Nicole: £1,000
  • 48-hour private stay: £1,800
  • 72-hour private stay: £2,500
  • 7-day private stay: £5,000
  • 7-day BDSM holiday with Nicole and Jessica: £7,000

For stays at my place, the tribute includes my time and the very basic sleeping arrangements I’ve described. Don’t expect luxury accommodation.

For holidays with Jessica and me, flights, hotels, transport, meals, activities and other expenses are additional. We also expect you to treat us both to lunch or dinner at least once each day, with the budget agreed beforehand.

Shorter holidays with both of us may be possible, with prices agreed individually.

Any activities, boundaries, sleeping arrangements and practical expectations will be discussed before booking.

Why Do I Charge £50 for a Consultation?

Because I’ve spent enough time talking to people with enormous plans and absolutely no intention of following through.

I’m happy to hear interesting ideas, but I don’t want to spend hours planning a holiday with someone who was never serious about booking in the first place.

For longer stays and holidays, I prefer to have a proper conversation before making arrangements.

The £50 consultation gives us a chance to discuss your interests, experience, budget, boundaries and whether we’d actually enjoy spending that amount of time together.

It also gives you an opportunity to ask questions and decide whether this is really what you’re looking for.

The consultation fee covers the call itself. It doesn’t guarantee I’ll accept your booking.

Interested in a BDSM Holiday or Private Stay?

If you’ve got an idea, send me an email.

Tell me whether you’re interested in staying at my place, booking a London hotel or eventually travelling somewhere with Jessica and me.

I’d also like to know:

  • A little about yourself and your previous BDSM experience.
  • Whether you’re interested in foot worship, service, bondage, sploshing or a mixture.
  • How long you’d like to stay.
  • Your approximate budget.
  • Any destinations or dates you have in mind.
  • Whether we’ve met before.

You don’t need to write me a novel, but please put some thought into your introduction.

If you’re looking for someone to entertain you for 24 hours straight, we’re probably not a good match.

But if you enjoy being useful, following rules, having plenty of quiet time and occasionally getting involved in something interesting, we might get along rather well.

If your idea sounds suitable, we can arrange the £50 consultation and take it from there.

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